Designed to Feel
Bestseller by Peter Burchardt
Designed to Feel
Your anxiety, jealousy, and anger aren't broken β€” they're ancient software running in a world they weren't built for. This book is the missing manual.
β€œThe most eye-opening book on emotions I've ever read.”
Get It on Amazon β†’Available in paperback & Kindle

Best Dating Sites in Chicago

Expert rankings of the top dating platforms in Chicago, scored on safety, ease of use, value, and match quality.

Chicago offers a warm and approachable dating scene that balances Midwestern friendliness with big-city energy. The city's strong neighborhood identities mean dating tends to be hyper-local, with singles often preferring matches in their part of town. Chicago's food and drink culture provides excellent first-date options year-round.

Top Dating Sites (11)

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Hinge

βœ“General Dating

Meaningful connections leading to real relationships

8.7
FreeUSD 34.99/mo premium
#3 Most Downloaded Dating App#1 App for Marriages (35% of couples)#1 Dating App in UK, Australia, Canada & Nordics
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Bumble

βœ“General Dating

Women who want to control the conversation

8.5
FreeUSD 32.99/mo premium
#2 Most Downloaded Dating AppApple 'Trend of the Year' WinnerBest Marketing Campaign
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eHarmony

βœ“Serious Relationships

Finding a long-term partner through scientific matching

8.3
USD 55.9/mo premium
4.1β˜… App Store Rating2M+ US Marriages Facilitated4% of US Marriages β€” 438 Per Day
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Tinder

βœ“General Dating

Casual dating and meeting new people quickly

8.2
FreeUSD 29.99/mo premium
#1 Most Downloaded Dating App Worldwide#1 Top Grossing Dating AppBest Mobile Dating App
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HER

βœ“LGBTQ+

Lesbian, bisexual, and queer women and non-binary people

8.0
FreeUSD 14.99/mo premium
#1 Dating App for Lesbian & Queer Women4.4β˜… App Store Rating
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Match.com

βœ“General Dating

Serious daters over 30 looking for committed relationships

7.9
USD 44.99/mo premium
Most Innovative Company21.5M Registered UsersWorld's First Commercial Dating Website 1995
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Coffee Meets Bagel

βœ“General Dating

Busy professionals who want curated, quality matches

7.9
FreeUSD 34.99/mo premium
#1 Among Asian American Communities2.5B+ Introductions MadeFeatured on Shark Tank
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OkCupid

βœ“General Dating

People who value compatibility matching over appearance

7.8
FreeUSD 19.99/mo premium
#1 Rated Dating Site4.3β˜… App Store RatingTop 10 Dating Sites
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Grindr

βœ“LGBTQ+

Gay, bi, and queer men seeking nearby connections

7.4
FreeUSD 24.99/mo premium
#1 Gay Dating App Worldwide#4 Highest-Grossing Dating AppBest Dating App
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Happn

βœ“Hook-up / Casual

Meeting people you cross paths with in real life

7.4
FreeUSD 24.99/mo premium
#2 Dating App in France4.3β˜… App Store Rating100M+ Users in 190 Countries
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Plenty of Fish

βœ“General Dating

Budget-conscious daters who want free messaging

7.2
FreeUSD 12.99/mo premium
#1 Free Dating SiteMost Popular Dating App in Canada4.3β˜… App Store Rating

Dating Site Costs in Chicago

Dating site subscriptions in Chicago typically range from $0 – $50/month depending on the platform and subscription tier.

SiteCategoryMonthly Cost
HingeGeneral DatingFree tierUSD 34.99/mo
BumbleGeneral DatingFree tierUSD 32.99/mo
eHarmonySerious RelationshipsUSD 55.9/mo
TinderGeneral DatingFree tierUSD 29.99/mo
HERLGBTQ+Free tierUSD 14.99/mo
Match.comGeneral DatingUSD 44.99/mo
Coffee Meets BagelGeneral DatingFree tierUSD 34.99/mo
OkCupidGeneral DatingFree tierUSD 19.99/mo
GrindrLGBTQ+Free tierUSD 24.99/mo
HappnHook-up / CasualFree tierUSD 24.99/mo

Frequently Asked Questions

What dating apps are most popular in Chicago?
Hinge, Bumble, and Tinder lead the pack in Chicago. Coffee Meets Bagel has a loyal following among professionals, and OkCupid remains popular for its detailed profiles.
How does neighborhood affect dating in Chicago?
Significantly. Chicagoans tend to date within their neighborhood or nearby areas. Wicker Park, Lincoln Park, and the Loop each have distinct dating vibes, and most people factor in proximity when swiping.
Is Chicago a good city for dating?
Yes. Chicago is consistently rated one of the best US cities for singles due to its affordable cost of living, strong social culture, and friendly population. The dating scene is less competitive than NYC or LA.
The Tribe Manager by Peter Burchardt
The Leadership Companion
The Tribe Manager
Your employees are running stone-age software. Manage with it, you get loyalty and performance. Manage against it, you get quiet quitting and turnover.
Leading People the Way Evolution Intended β€” by Peter Burchardt
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