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Best Dating Sites in Los Angeles

Expert rankings of the top dating platforms in Los Angeles, scored on safety, ease of use, value, and match quality.

Los Angeles has a vibrant and image-conscious dating scene shaped by its entertainment industry, beach culture, and sprawling geography. Distance and traffic make dating apps particularly valuable for connecting people across the city's many distinct neighborhoods. LA singles tend to value wellness, creativity, and ambition in potential partners.

Top Dating Sites (12)

1
💚

Hinge

General Dating

Meaningful connections leading to real relationships

8.7
FreeUSD 34.99/mo premium
#3 Most Downloaded Dating App#1 App for Marriages (35% of couples)#1 Dating App in UK, Australia, Canada & Nordics
2
🐝

Bumble

General Dating

Women who want to control the conversation

8.5
FreeUSD 32.99/mo premium
#2 Most Downloaded Dating AppApple 'Trend of the Year' WinnerBest Marketing Campaign
3
🔥

Tinder

General Dating

Casual dating and meeting new people quickly

8.2
FreeUSD 29.99/mo premium
#1 Most Downloaded Dating App Worldwide#1 Top Grossing Dating AppBest Mobile Dating App
4
🏳️‍🌈

HER

LGBTQ+

Lesbian, bisexual, and queer women and non-binary people

8.0
FreeUSD 14.99/mo premium
#1 Dating App for Lesbian & Queer Women4.4★ App Store Rating
5

Coffee Meets Bagel

General Dating

Busy professionals who want curated, quality matches

7.9
FreeUSD 34.99/mo premium
#1 Among Asian American Communities2.5B+ Introductions MadeFeatured on Shark Tank
6
❤️

Match.com

General Dating

Serious daters over 30 looking for committed relationships

7.9
USD 44.99/mo premium
Most Innovative Company21.5M Registered UsersWorld's First Commercial Dating Website 1995
7

Raya

Niche

Creative professionals and public figures

7.8
USD 9.99/mo premium
~8% Acceptance Rate
8
💙

OkCupid

General Dating

People who value compatibility matching over appearance

7.8
FreeUSD 19.99/mo premium
#1 Rated Dating Site4.3★ App Store RatingTop 10 Dating Sites
9
😈

Grindr

LGBTQ+

Gay, bi, and queer men seeking nearby connections

7.4
FreeUSD 24.99/mo premium
#1 Gay Dating App Worldwide#4 Highest-Grossing Dating AppBest Dating App
10
📍

Happn

Hook-up / Casual

Meeting people you cross paths with in real life

7.4
FreeUSD 24.99/mo premium
#2 Dating App in France4.3★ App Store Rating100M+ Users in 190 Countries
11
🏆

The League

Serious Relationships

Ambitious professionals who want a vetted, curated dating pool

7.2
USD 67/mo premium
<8% Acceptance Rate
12
🦋

Feeld

Hook-up / Casual

Open-minded singles and couples exploring non-traditional connections

7.2
FreeUSD 23.99/mo premium
#1 App for Ethical Non-MonogamyInnovation by Design Award — Graphic DesignBest Real-Time Response Campaign

Dating Site Costs in Los Angeles

Dating site subscriptions in Los Angeles typically range from $0 – $60/month depending on the platform and subscription tier.

SiteCategoryMonthly Cost
HingeGeneral DatingFree tierUSD 34.99/mo
BumbleGeneral DatingFree tierUSD 32.99/mo
TinderGeneral DatingFree tierUSD 29.99/mo
HERLGBTQ+Free tierUSD 14.99/mo
Coffee Meets BagelGeneral DatingFree tierUSD 34.99/mo
Match.comGeneral DatingUSD 44.99/mo
RayaNicheUSD 9.99/mo
OkCupidGeneral DatingFree tierUSD 19.99/mo
GrindrLGBTQ+Free tierUSD 24.99/mo
HappnHook-up / CasualFree tierUSD 24.99/mo

Frequently Asked Questions

What dating apps work best in LA?
Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge are the top three, while Raya has an outsized presence due to LA's entertainment industry. The League is also popular among professionals in West LA and Beverly Hills.
How does LA's dating scene differ from other cities?
LA's dating culture is heavily influenced by its entertainment and wellness industries. Expect more outdoor dates, a focus on physical appearance, and a slower pace than East Coast cities due to the city's laid-back vibe.
Is it hard to date in Los Angeles?
The city's sprawl can make dating challenging — a date in Santa Monica when you live in Silver Lake means significant travel. Apps help bridge the distance gap, and most LA singles understand the logistics involved.
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