Designed to Feel
Bestseller by Peter Burchardt
Designed to Feel
Your anxiety, jealousy, and anger aren't broken β€” they're ancient software running in a world they weren't built for. This book is the missing manual.
β€œThe most eye-opening book on emotions I've ever read.”
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Best Dating Sites in Melbourne

Expert rankings of the top dating platforms in Melbourne, scored on safety, ease of use, value, and match quality.

Melbourne's dating scene is creative, progressive, and community-oriented, reflecting the city's reputation as Australia's cultural capital. The city's famous laneway bars and cafe culture provide intimate first-date settings, while its strong arts and music scenes create natural opportunities for connection. Melbourne singles tend to value depth and shared interests.

Top Dating Sites (12)

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Hinge

βœ“General Dating

Meaningful connections leading to real relationships

8.7
FreeUSD 34.99/mo premium
#3 Most Downloaded Dating App#1 App for Marriages (35% of couples)#1 Dating App in UK, Australia, Canada & Nordics
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Bumble

βœ“General Dating

Women who want to control the conversation

8.5
FreeUSD 32.99/mo premium
#2 Most Downloaded Dating AppApple 'Trend of the Year' WinnerBest Marketing Campaign
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eHarmony

βœ“Serious Relationships

Finding a long-term partner through scientific matching

8.3
USD 55.9/mo premium
4.1β˜… App Store Rating2M+ US Marriages Facilitated4% of US Marriages β€” 438 Per Day
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Tinder

βœ“General Dating

Casual dating and meeting new people quickly

8.2
FreeUSD 29.99/mo premium
#1 Most Downloaded Dating App Worldwide#1 Top Grossing Dating AppBest Mobile Dating App
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HER

βœ“LGBTQ+

Lesbian, bisexual, and queer women and non-binary people

8.0
FreeUSD 14.99/mo premium
#1 Dating App for Lesbian & Queer Women4.4β˜… App Store Rating
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Coffee Meets Bagel

βœ“General Dating

Busy professionals who want curated, quality matches

7.9
FreeUSD 34.99/mo premium
#1 Among Asian American Communities2.5B+ Introductions MadeFeatured on Shark Tank
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OkCupid

βœ“General Dating

People who value compatibility matching over appearance

7.8
FreeUSD 19.99/mo premium
#1 Rated Dating Site4.3β˜… App Store RatingTop 10 Dating Sites
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Badoo

βœ“General Dating

International dating and meeting people abroad

7.5
FreeUSD 12.99/mo premium
#1 in Latin America & Southern EuropeBest Dating Site4.6β˜… App Store Rating
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Happn

βœ“Hook-up / Casual

Meeting people you cross paths with in real life

7.4
FreeUSD 24.99/mo premium
#2 Dating App in France4.3β˜… App Store Rating100M+ Users in 190 Countries
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Grindr

βœ“LGBTQ+

Gay, bi, and queer men seeking nearby connections

7.4
FreeUSD 24.99/mo premium
#1 Gay Dating App Worldwide#4 Highest-Grossing Dating AppBest Dating App
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Plenty of Fish

βœ“General Dating

Budget-conscious daters who want free messaging

7.2
FreeUSD 12.99/mo premium
#1 Free Dating SiteMost Popular Dating App in Canada4.3β˜… App Store Rating
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Feeld

βœ“Hook-up / Casual

Open-minded singles and couples exploring non-traditional connections

7.2
FreeUSD 23.99/mo premium
#1 App for Ethical Non-MonogamyInnovation by Design Award β€” Graphic DesignBest Real-Time Response Campaign

Dating Site Costs in Melbourne

Dating site subscriptions in Melbourne typically range from AUD $0 – $55/month depending on the platform and subscription tier.

SiteCategoryMonthly Cost
HingeGeneral DatingFree tierUSD 34.99/mo
BumbleGeneral DatingFree tierUSD 32.99/mo
eHarmonySerious RelationshipsUSD 55.9/mo
TinderGeneral DatingFree tierUSD 29.99/mo
HERLGBTQ+Free tierUSD 14.99/mo
Coffee Meets BagelGeneral DatingFree tierUSD 34.99/mo
OkCupidGeneral DatingFree tierUSD 19.99/mo
BadooGeneral DatingFree tierUSD 12.99/mo
HappnHook-up / CasualFree tierUSD 24.99/mo
GrindrLGBTQ+Free tierUSD 24.99/mo

Frequently Asked Questions

What dating apps are popular in Melbourne?
Hinge and Bumble lead for serious dating, closely followed by Tinder. Melbourne's progressive culture has driven strong adoption of Feeld for non-traditional dating, and OkCupid's in-depth profiles resonate with the city's intellectual vibe.
How does Melbourne dating compare to Sydney?
Melbourne dating is generally more low-key and personality-focused compared to Sydney's more image-conscious scene. Coffee and laneway bar dates are the norm, and cultural events like gallery openings or live music are popular date activities.
Is Melbourne good for dating?
Yes. Melbourne is consistently rated one of Australia's best cities for singles due to its vibrant social scene, high concentration of young professionals, and progressive attitudes toward dating.
The Tribe Manager by Peter Burchardt
The Leadership Companion
The Tribe Manager
Your employees are running stone-age software. Manage with it, you get loyalty and performance. Manage against it, you get quiet quitting and turnover.
Leading People the Way Evolution Intended β€” by Peter Burchardt
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