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Best Dating Sites in Portland

Expert rankings of the top dating platforms in Portland, scored on safety, ease of use, value, and match quality.

Portland's dating scene is quirky, progressive, and fiercely independent, matching the city's reputation for counter-culture and authenticity. The city has a strong focus on ethical non-monogamy and alternative relationship structures, with platforms like Feeld and OkCupid thriving. Portland singles value sustainability, creativity, and genuine connection over material status.

Top Dating Sites (11)

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Hinge

✓General Dating

Meaningful connections leading to real relationships

8.7

FreeUSD 34.99/mo premium

#3 Most Downloaded Dating App#1 App for Marriages (35% of couples)#1 Dating App in UK, Australia, Canada & Nordics

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Bumble

✓General Dating

Women who want to control the conversation

8.5

FreeUSD 32.99/mo premium

#2 Most Downloaded Dating AppApple 'Trend of the Year' WinnerBest Marketing Campaign

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Tinder

✓General Dating

Casual dating and meeting new people quickly

8.2

FreeUSD 29.99/mo premium

#1 Most Downloaded Dating App Worldwide#1 Top Grossing Dating AppBest Mobile Dating App

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HER

✓LGBTQ+

Lesbian, bisexual, and queer women and non-binary people

8.0

FreeUSD 14.99/mo premium

#1 Dating App for Lesbian & Queer Women4.4★ App Store Rating

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Coffee Meets Bagel

✓General Dating

Busy professionals who want curated, quality matches

7.9

FreeUSD 34.99/mo premium

#1 Among Asian American Communities2.5B+ Introductions MadeFeatured on Shark Tank

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Match.com

✓General Dating

Serious daters over 30 looking for committed relationships

7.9

USD 44.99/mo premium

Most Innovative Company21.5M Registered UsersWorld's First Commercial Dating Website 1995

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OkCupid

✓General Dating

People who value compatibility matching over appearance

7.8

FreeUSD 19.99/mo premium

#1 Rated Dating Site4.3★ App Store RatingTop 10 Dating Sites

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Taimi

✓LGBTQ+

LGBTQ+ individuals wanting dating plus social networking

7.5

FreeUSD 14.99/mo premium

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Grindr

✓LGBTQ+

Gay, bi, and queer men seeking nearby connections

7.4

FreeUSD 24.99/mo premium

#1 Gay Dating App Worldwide#4 Highest-Grossing Dating AppBest Dating App

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Feeld

✓Hook-up / Casual

Open-minded singles and couples exploring non-traditional connections

7.2

FreeUSD 23.99/mo premium

#1 App for Ethical Non-MonogamyInnovation by Design Award — Graphic DesignBest Real-Time Response Campaign

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Plenty of Fish

✓General Dating

Budget-conscious daters who want free messaging

7.2

FreeUSD 12.99/mo premium

#1 Free Dating SiteMost Popular Dating App in Canada4.3★ App Store Rating

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Dating Site Costs in Portland

Dating site subscriptions in Portland typically range from $0 – $50/month depending on the platform and subscription tier.

Site	Category	Monthly Cost
Hinge	General Dating	Free tierUSD 34.99/mo
Bumble	General Dating	Free tierUSD 32.99/mo
Tinder	General Dating	Free tierUSD 29.99/mo
HER	LGBTQ+	Free tierUSD 14.99/mo
Coffee Meets Bagel	General Dating	Free tierUSD 34.99/mo
Match.com	General Dating	USD 44.99/mo
OkCupid	General Dating	Free tierUSD 19.99/mo
Taimi	LGBTQ+	Free tierUSD 14.99/mo
Grindr	LGBTQ+	Free tierUSD 24.99/mo
Feeld	Hook-up / Casual	Free tierUSD 23.99/mo

Frequently Asked Questions

What dating apps are popular in Portland?

OkCupid has an unusually strong presence in Portland due to its compatibility focus and progressive features. Bumble and Hinge are popular for mainstream dating, while Feeld and Taimi serve Portland's significant non-traditional and LGBTQ+ dating communities.

What's unique about Portland dating?

Portland has one of the highest rates of ethical non-monogamy in the US, and this is reflected in its dating app culture. The city's food cart culture and craft beverage scene provide endless casual date options, and outdoor activities like hiking in Forest Park are standard.

Is Portland a good dating city?

It depends on what you're looking for. Portland excels for those who value authenticity, progressive values, and alternative dating styles. The city's smaller size means the dating pool is more limited than in larger metros, but the quality of connections tends to be high.